STANLEY BING
Hi! Got stress? Bet you don't need it. Gives you a headache. Makes you
cranky. Doesn't help you work at all. Fortunately, there are a host of
highly effective solutions that top executives carry in their bulging pockets
all the time. When they need 'em, they pull 'em out and whammo! You can
do the same--if you've got the tools. Here are all you'll ever need:
--Get a mantra. A totemic word, repeated until it blocks out
all others, can be a one-way ticket to a mental institution. But in the
right hands, a little mysticism applied directly to where it hurts ya just
might open your personal doorway to focus and repose. First, find yourself
a small enclosure where no one dares to enter. Every bathroom has one.
Now...close your eyes...concentrate...breathe in, breathe out...and obsessively
repeat your mantra to yourself. Say only that word. Channel your entire
aura into it until it obliterates all reality but your internal one. Feels
good, huh? Any word will do. You might start out like most of us did with
that old clunker "Om." Personally, I've found the word "kill" to have incredible
restorative power. A couple of minutes letting that baby drum into my skull
and I'm ready to hit the ground hard, and do what needs to be done.
--Visualization is the acid of the Nineties. So tune in, even
if you can't do the other two things. The human imagination is a wonderful
tool. Use it for more than generating next month's theme for the controller's
conference. Just take a second to project what you want the future to be
in your own mind--see it!--then go and live there. Maniac puce-headed hoopster
Dennis Rodman, for instance, imagines himself guarding every member of
the opposing team, then goes out on the floor and lets his vision unfold.
And it does. Or at least that's what he tells us in his new, best-selling
book. Do you think he imagined every person in America buying his book?
I bet he did! And so they are! So can you, except instead of visualizing
yourself as Dennis Rodman, see yourself as You--waiting for Leonard Brush
the budget muncher to finish his presentation on internal synergies, then
rising to your feet to puncture his specious argument and retain your cost
structure. Imagine him hanging from his tasteless club tie in the freight
elevator! The future is as big or small as your dream. Don't think tiny.
--Work your body. If God had meant us to sit at desks all day,
blabbing on the phone and cramming down inexpensive meat sandwiches, he
would have made us huge invertebrates with dappled green skin and suction
cups for mouths. So every day, no matter what's going on, take 15 to 20
minutes to get your heart rate up to the point where it can be measured
by an EKG from ten to 12 feet away. Getting a phone call from the chairman
doesn't count; fright is not cardiac exercise. And no, you don't need to
belong to some club that would have you--or, even worse, your management
consultant, Lutz--as a member. Just find any old staircase and walk up
and down on it until you feel your heart about to leap out of your chest
and your temples straining to pop from your skull. Still concerned about
the slight premonition you've been feeling about receivables in the near
term? I bet not!
--Drink a lot of wine. I was reading the other day about people
in Assyria, back when the wheel was invented, basically, who discovered
how to plant grapes and immediately started out imbibing wine in large
quantities. Believe me, those people felt less tension at work than we
do. That's why busy executives, at the end of a day, often drink quarts
of the stuff to replenish their mental juices and get back that feeling
of bonhomie that's so much a part of their personal powerbank. The good
thing about wine is that, unlike hard liquor, it's not really a drink at
all, actually. It's more of a food, sort of, with lots of frisky vitamins
and minerals. Apply it liberally to your stress zones, and watch 'em melt
away.
--Get out of touch. Physically as well as mentally. The cellular
world stinks. Did you know that one of the guys who died recently on Mount
Everest had just called a couple of people on his cellular phone? Isn't
that depressing? This thing has gotten way out of hand. Toss away your
beepers! Let your batteries run down! Let the world know that there are
times when you cannot be reached!
--Scream at people. At the same time you're asserting your human
rights, strip others of theirs. This is one of the big perks of truly stressed
out people. Wait until you're ready to molt out of your skin, then find
somebody weaker than you and bark at him for a while. Sometimes a small
"woof" may do the trick. But on Fridays at 4 p.m., when everybody decides
it's time to pass along all remaining issues to you, nothing less than
a full-scale "bow-wow-wow," complete with growls and occasional snapping
noises, will do.
--Obsess yourself. Ultimately, however, these lifestyle choices,
while vitiating much low-level stress, cannot be nearly as effective as
full-blown business fixation, which is possibly the most effective palliative
of all. Nothing can help you arrive at your destination more efficiently
than inappropriate grandiosity--a really enormous idea that replaces eating,
drinking, exercise, mantras, the whole schmeer. Okay, if you're not Carl
Icahn, you can't buy Tasmania. But every business person, no matter how
small or crushed by anxiety, can dream. Keep in mind that this is true,
narcissistic, overweening ambition you're reaching for, some object so
huge and unattainable you'd have to be either out of your mind to want
it, or a genius. Once you've settled on your acquisition target, let nothing
stand in your way. Think only about It. Plan in detail for It. Torment
your subordinates with preparations for It.
--Surround yourself with people you trust who know what you need.
Now that you're focused, it's essential to sweep all impedimenta aside.
That means hiring staff who will anticipate your needs. Soften the edges
on things a little. Take out your dry cleaning. Get you a soda when you're
thirsty. Torch a rain forest if that's required, so you don't have to.
Find those people. Then shut everyone else out. After a while your stress
will be just a tiny little whisper behind the great facade of calm you
have built around yourself.
--Grow your fingernails and hair very long and don't come out of
your office except maybe once a day, when it's dark out and nobody will
get into your face. It doesn't hurt to line your office with cork either.
Cork keeps out noise and dust. Dust is really bad too. Dust has germs in
it. There are billions of germs out there that can make you sick and cut
down on your peace of mind and productivity. Doorknobs have germs on them.
Spoons? Teeming with them. All those bacilli. Crawling over things. Causing...stress.
Get rid of them. Now.
There. We've done it. Eliminated stress from our lives. And it hasn't
been all that difficult, has it? In a world full of disorder, we've taken
a few simple steps to put things in place, where they can be anticipated,
handled, controlled. Yeah. Control is what it's all about. Control eradicates
stress. Must maintain control. No surprises. So we can go about our business
calmly, in a focused fashion, without, you know, going nuts. And we don't
want to go nuts. Do we.
By day, Stanley Bing is a real executive at a real FORTUNE 500 company
he'd rather not name.
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