M R .  B E N N E T
     At the end of the first in the book we learn that Mr. Bennet is a "mixture" and many of his speeches and actions bear out of this criticism. He appears cleaver in his remarks to and about his wife and at the same time rather heartless. When she complains how much he vexes her he retorts sarcastically, "You mistake me, my dear, I have high respect for your nerves. I have heard you mention them with consideration these twenty years at least". He teases Mary about reading her books, "What say you, Mary? For you are a young lady of deep reflection, I know, and read great books and make extracts".”/ He is certainly no more polite in his remarks to his daughters than he is to his wife. After listening to the conversation of Lydia and Kitty one morning he declares, "From all that I can collect by your manner of talking, you must be two of the silliest girls in the country. I have suspected it some time, but now I am convinced".  On another occasion, when his wife complains the he prefers Elizabeth to his other daughters, he retorts, "They have none of them much to recommend them, they are all silly and ignorant like other girls; but Lizzy has something more of quickness than her sisters"”.
     This appreciation of character, for does realize that Elizabeth and Jane have good qualities, together with his common-sense, makes some amends for his indolence, selfishness and ironical wit, and the result of Lydia's waywardness and foolishness brings ouy the better traits in his character. He even retrains from annoying Kitty when he finds that he remarks have reduced her to tears, merely teasing her gently by saying that he is not going to allow her the licence which Lydia has had and means to say that she spends part of each day in a rational manner. "If you are a good girl for the next ten years, I will take you to a review at the end of them"  He realizes upon Lydia’s elopement that he has for years been waiving his responsibilities with regards to his daughters, and he censures himself bitterly for his "philosophic composure" To Elizabeth, his favorite daughter, he says, when she attempts to express her sympathy for his trouble in seeking Lydia, "Say nothing of that. Who should suffer but myself? It has been my own doing and I ought to feel it….Let me once in me life feel I am to blame".”.
     His insight into his own character is also shown by his next remark, "I am not afraid of being overpowered by the impression. It will pass away soon enough".
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