Family Genealogy:
Big Wife | Yuen | |
May-yin | Ping | |
Nan | ||
Winnie + | Denise Cheong | |
Chow Guen | Leonard adopted |
The Past
1848 -- Chan Sam leaves his family 1922 -- arrives in North America 1924 -- May-ying (p. 62) 1929 -- return to China 1930 -- back to Canada, Winnie¡¦s birth 1935 -- second return 1987 -- Winnie's trip |
1987 -- Winnie's visit of China with Denise |
Issues: The Influences
of Institutionalized Racism on Family Relationships
Gender -- Chan-Sam and May-Yin their marriage: a hunting knife under his side of the mattress (63) May-ying as a waitress (63) May-ying as a Concubine (63) the house 65 --being fatherly from afar (69; 71) -- does not belong in Nanaimo, missing home 58-59 --sacrifice the famly in Canada for the sake of the family in China |
Leave her husband 63; 65 claimed back the rites of love (67) gamble her love on Chow Guen, get a son Leonard Her later years (73-74) the family photo (p. 60) Winnie neglected; Strictly disciplined 66-67 like a checked baggage, 68; dressed as a son 91 Winnie's rebellion ; decides to quit school; after marriage, keep a regular correspondence with her mother -- final brokeup 70; 75 Paper daughter 69 Ping 77 --"I don't deserve this; I was not born here." immigration--liberation 77 |
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I . grandfather--1913 (racism 11-15 1923 Exclusion)2. grandmother--scary; strong woman "cutting and curling her hair to look older to conform to the illegally purchased birth certificate"
--faithful to his wife 20
--a hunting knife under his side of the mattress
--being fatherly from afar
does not belong in Nanaimo, missing home 58-59
--sacrifice the famly in Canada for the sake of the family in China
being a concubine as a mark against her p. 8
fear of being divorced, everthing accumulated since marriage was the husband's 31
--sought after as a waitress--teahouse waitresses 28-29, 33; 57;
her strength 30 herbal medicine, mah-jionng
challenge fate in gambling table 110
conflicts 50-51; 62-63
--claimed back the rites of love and courtship denied her by Grandfather
gamble her love on Chow Guen, get a son Leonard
3. between grandma and mother , and the author
--not loving; mother, like a checked baggage, 1414. a family inevitably split by history
venting her bitterness on her daughters 131; chose to run 140
Guen 148--Hing
mother--silent; shame 148; dressed as a son 91; 93; obedience
Hing's rebellion 126 glum, serious expression; turn at the sign of rooming house
163--decides to quit school
p. 202 after marriage, keep a regular correspondence with her mother
206 live with Winnie
p. 208-you didnt raise me--210
HIng--police herself 165
after her death 235
"You are Canadian" 238
Winnie's confusion and regret 241the collision of the two worlds
immigration--liberation 259
the author--p.4; 195; 206-07
1. grandfather's letters p. 199; 211-12
2. different fates of the three sisters
the house built by Chan Sam 73
Ping--"I don't deserve this; I was not born here." p. 3; 77
5. connection--
1. grandfather's love for the Chinese family; for Hing 147; 179; for the author 195
2. May-yin and her grandchildren p. 222-23; and Louise 227
May-yin and the adopted children 264
3. travelling back to China
the coat p. 3
4. daughter--fill in the blanks 265;-66
grave visits--she's seen the fruits of their labor unresolved tensions